Acting Exercises: Actions speak louder
There's a scene from a movie I have used in workshops for years. The scene is an exercise in saying one thing and meaning another. The dialogue goes like this:
MAN: Why you rattlesnake. You got that poor kid fired.
WOMAN: That's not all I'm gonna do if I ever get my hands on her.
MAN: I never heard of anything so low. Why did you do it?
WOMAN: 'Cause you liked her. I could tell.
MAN: So that's it? Believe me, I don't like her half as much as I hate you, you reptile.
WOMAN: Sticks and stones may break my bones.
MAN: I'd like to break every bone in your body.
WOMAN: You and who else, you big lummox?
These characters hate each other. They're in the middle of an argument, and they're ready to kill one another. What's interesting is in the movie "Singin' in the Rain", the dialogue is delivered by two silent movie actors filming a love scene. The actors faces, bodies, and vocal tones say "love", even as their words say hate.
People do not always say what they mean, and the words on a page are rarely (if ever) enough to truly portray the conflict. Try speaking the phrase, "Nice dress, Becky," in a way that is complimentary. Now say it in a way that conveys jealousy. See what I mean?
It is not enough to learn your lines; you must go beyond the written word to the heart of the character and ask yourself, why am I saying this? Am I being nice? Am I being insulting? Am I sincere, or am I setting someone up for a fall?
Like so many theater lessons, this one has an application beyond the stage for the believer. Do we say what we mean and mean what we say? How often do we deliver underhanded comments, tearing others down when we should be building up? Are we people who can be trusted? Or do others see by our actions that our words are empty?
Speak all you want. Say what you want. Your actions, like your characters, will always speak louder than words.